There are just so many great prompts for this month's
30 Days of Lists! Today's prompt?...
Favorite Cliches.
"Marry your best friend."
I am so blessed to have found my best friend at such a young age (13 to be exact...). Thomas and I have really watched each other grow up from being teenagers with attitudes to
[young] adults spreading their wings for the first time and even starting a family. When I think of what defines a best friend... I think of someone who will always be
100% honest with me (even when it may hurt). Someone who
knows me maybe just
a little bit too well. Someone who is able to
know how I'm feeling and
even what I'm thinking without me saying a
single word. I think of someone who I can have some pretty bad fights with... But at the end of the day there are
no hard feelings,
just lessons learned.
I don't know how I would've been able to
build a foundation for our
marriage without truly being Thomas' friend first. The level of
trust that we have and how well we know each other truly is the result of a
deep friendship that has been growing over the span of more than
(...holy crap) a
decade.
"A baby changes everything."
And any other cliches about how much becoming a parent changes your life.
Thomas kept telling me that once we had a baby the way I look at the world would be totally different. And I knew he was right... And I would agree with him... But I don't think that either of us
truly knew the
extent to which our babies would change our lives. To be honest, when I was growing up I
never thought I would want to
live on the mainland. I knew I wanted to travel, but I never really considered actually
raising my family on the mainland. After losing our jobs last year and becoming parents, Thomas and I really started to analyze the
opportunities around us differently. We also started to really take a look at what kind of
future we wanted for our family. That's when we made the decision to give life on the continental U.S. a shot.
We're only young once (haha...
another cliche I should probably add to my list)... And what
everyone tells us is totally, 100% right: I don't want to be struggling later on in life when I should be
carefree... But
I don't want to be unhappy either. I would much rather
struggle now while pursuing what truly makes us
happy. Even possibly
falling a few times while trying to reach for our dreams... But as long as we
learn our lesson and
get back up... We're going to keep reaching to better our lives. Because that's what happens when you have a baby... They
motivate you to
be the best and
provide the best that you can.
"Nothing worth having comes easy."
Nothing that I thank God for every night came
easily to me. They
all came with their own form of
pain, sadness, criticism, struggle, etc. but at the end of it I have a
beautiful list of things to thank God for. From the night we found out we were going to have Chloe, we've tried our best to throw our hands up to God.
Leaving it all to him. We put in the
work by
applying for jobs,
going to the interviews, making
sacrifices, doing the
research... But we leave the
outcomes to Him. I ask Him to give me the
strength to take the rejection as Him telling me that that's not the opportunity for me... While also asking Him to give me the
courage to
step out of my comfort zone to
take risks and put myself out there. I may come up against
rejection and
criticism... But if it makes me
happy and I'm being true to myself and my values. I'll make it.
So, what are a few of your favorite cliches?